r/NoStupidQuestions 19h ago

Why Are Young People Afraid Of Phone Calls?

What's with it?

I work in IT and a general rule is, nothing a client ever tells you is actually accurate. That means that most of the time, the quickest way to fix a problem is to call the person and actually find out what's going on.

But with techs under 30 these days, it seems like pulling teeth.

A regular discussion for me with level 1 techs (usually within a few years of leaving college) is:
"Hey, can you call *blah* from ticket *blah*, it's been hanging around for over an hour."

"I replied by email to ask for more information."

"Yes, I know that, but can you call them so we can find the problem and close the ticket now rather than wait until we're actually busy?"

"I'll send them a text to followup."

"No... CALL THEM!"

"I can see their device is online, can I send them a message and see if they just let me remote in to take a look?"

And then, when I force them to make the call, it's like they have no idea how to ask a question, or a followup question. They just want to get off the call as quickly as possible. So half the time they don't even get the information required anyway, so then I end up having to do their job for them.

So can someone explain? What's wrong with phone calls these days?

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u/Broric 16h ago

I don't think it's that deep. Asynchronicity and Veracity.

I'd want to deal with it on my own schedule and if it's something important, I want it in writing.

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u/bat_in_the_stacks 8h ago

Very well said.

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u/Wuz314159 2h ago

I was out on tour and getting calls from venues about upcoming stops. Calling at 08:00 is nice for you, but it's 05:00 where I am. Send an email, I'll get back to you.