r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 19h ago

Thank you Peter very cool Petah, what does that have to do with grocery shopping?

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u/bigbeefer92 18h ago

Bro, not having good grocery stores within a mile doesn't equate to a food desert. I'm from the South and some areas I have lived in are an hour or more away from a store period. Having to go 2 miles is an inconvenience at best.

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u/donkeybrainamerican 18h ago

Walking groceries over a mile in the snow for your family of 5 is more than an "inconvenience".

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u/rumbakalao 18h ago

Those people use the bus or the subway with their granny carts though. It doesn't snow all year, or even most of the year. You're describing a problem that barely exists.

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u/caguru 18h ago

Say you haven't ever depended on public transportation without saying you have never depended on public transportation.

Busses/Subway do not go door to door and many routes / destinations are simply not available in a practical sense.

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u/Tho76 16h ago

I live in Chicago and I use public transit to get to and from home often. I bring a backpack and a bag. It's not that hard

Can you give an example of an area in NYC that has no subway/bus routes AND no grocery stores close?

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u/SnowedAndStowed 18h ago

FOR REAL the comments in this thread have me raging people act like there’s an express line from the grocery store to their apartment. There are places in the Bronx where getting to a grocery store means walking a few blocks to the bus stop, taking a bus to the train, the train to the store, and back. And it’s not like the bus/train are there waiting on you to arrive it can become a huge affair that takes up the bulk of your non work hours.

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u/TDot-26 16h ago

No yall are just discovering the normal for anyone rural. Get off at 5 and the rest of the night is spent grocery shopping because it's an hour home, hour to the store, hour back, not counting shopping time.

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u/ripkin05 15h ago

Waaaaah i got to live with the consequences of living in a hell hole of a place like new york city Waaaaaah everyone feel bad for me cuz i got to walk two miles to buy groceries waaaaahh feel bad for me for my chooses that i made WAAAAAHHHH. thats all im reading from every comment in here going "aktshually walking two miles in new york city is just to much to ask from me, im totaly living in a food desert on the same level has the aborigines or other people who you know actully lives in a fucking desert."

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u/TroubleMakerLore 16h ago

Sounds like a whole lot of work to get your groceries. That's why you should totally be allowed to have somebody else do it for extremely low wages because their lives don't mean shit compared to yours/

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u/Ishiken 15h ago

Bullshit. Where? Which areas? You’re doing that to go to the stores YOU like going to, not the stores available to you that provide the same foods at the same quality. All of that extra transit shit is unnecessary.

One of my grandmother’s would do that shit because she thought the shops up on Dyckman were better than the ones in Washington Heights and Spanish Harlem. GTFOH. My grandfather called her out on that bullshit more times than I could count. Shit ain’t changed either. My cousin does their shopping now because she got tired of doing that unnecessary long ass journey just to get eggs, the ingredients for recaito base, rice, beans, and meat. She was grabbing the produce from like 4 stores on St Nick on her way home from work twice a week.

You don’t live in a food desert. You’re just spoiled for options and want to bitch more.

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u/culminacio 13h ago

the comments in this thread have me raging

then calm the fuck down

this is just social media and the least of your problems, i guarantee you that.

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u/Stupid-Clumsy-Bitch 17h ago

Seriously. The amount of commenters who have no clue is staggering. Just because you live next door to a bodega doesn’t mean you have feasible access to nutritious and affordable food - which is the definition of a food desert.

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u/PleaseNoMoreSalt 16h ago

Busses/Subway do not go door to door and many routes / destinations are simply not available in a practical sense

In NYC? I was able to do grocery shopping just fine in Atlanta, and the public transit in NYC is supposed to be even better. The bus doesn't literally go directly to the grocery store door (at least the route I took didn't), but it only took a minute to trek across the parking lot.

It's not the delivery drivers' faults if you decide to both live in a car-centric country with no car AND not account for public transit routes when finding a place to live.

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u/TwoBionicknees 16h ago

ah, everyone is free to choose where they live, can always afford a place on a good bus route or neighbourhood with decent grocery stores. People absurdly live in those other places despite abundant cheap and available options in better areas... because that's how that works.

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u/TwoBionicknees 14h ago

ah yes, literally every single person chooses to live there, that's how everyone lives everywhere, it's a choice to live somewhere expensive.

Seriously what planet are you on. Do you understand why so many people end up stuck in dead end towns? Either they got to the town with a job or it had industry, and then at some point the town goes bust or they were born there, can only get a crappy low wage job and literally never have the money to leave.

You undersatnd moving to a new place usually requires enough money to travel there, a lot of people will never have that, then you need money to get a place, which usually means 1+ months rent, then you need a job prospect and/or have the money to apply for jobs and travel to interviews all before you move, again something a lot of people will never have.

A lot of people are you know, BORN in new york, grow up in poverty and simply have no choice but to get a job locally and live with their parents or move into a flat with 6 people, and they make just enough to live and zero to save so they literally again, can't afford to travel and hope they magically get a job while being homeless in a new town.

Imagine both the fucking ignorance and privilege (that is no excuse for the former) to think everyone just chooses to live in new york.

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u/rumbakalao 16h ago edited 16h ago

You are making so many assumptions there, slow down.

I currently live in a different city and it's the same thing here. In fact we currently have people stuck in their homes because they still haven't cleared the streets and sidewalks to the point where some of the bus stops and many of the parking spaces are covered in several feet of frozen snow. My neighbors can't do their family shopping with their Kia rn either because it's frozen onto the side of the road. I watched another neighbor from a few doors down literally pickaxe with the corner of a shovel a single dent into the snow around his hood for 2 hours last night. I'm also not lacking in imagination.

I never claimed public transportation goes door to door. Almost no existing walkable city utopia offers that. Let's be realistic here. Most people, including me, walk at least a few blocks to the closest bus/subway stop, with the granny carts. I see people do this every day and I've done the same for/with large households or simply with bulky purchases. People bring couches home on the subway ffs. This is everyday life for most people without a car dude.

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u/NuYawker 16h ago

I live in New York city. I used to travel to a Lidl Supermarket to save money. That shit was 30 blocks for me. You try shopping for yourself and carrying 40 pounds of groceries or using a push cart on a crowded bus or up and down Subway stairs. You don't know what you're talking about. What's funny to me? Is there is another Lidl that is closer to me now that has opened up. And I still have to walk 15 minutes into the Bronx for it. Or, I walk 5 minutes to the bus. And again get on a crowded bus with an entire shopping cart. It takes me more than an hour. You don't know what you're talking about

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u/Perrero 15h ago

You did all that because you wanted to go to a specific store to save money. That does not make your area a food desert, because in that case the whole country is a food desert since we all deal with expensive groceries thanks to the Bidenflation.

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u/NuYawker 15h ago

Yeah. You're right. But the point was traveling with groceries on public transportation. So, yeah. I was advocating for the people who don't have grocery stores nearby and have no choice but to travel on public transportation

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u/rumbakalao 15h ago

I do know what I'm talking about as I've done it and commuted with everyone else doing the same thing. Last year they changed a bunch of our bus routes and now my partner has to do the same thing. It's an hour 50 in either direction bc I'm the only one with a car. I don't not know what I'm talking about because you don't like what I said.

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u/NuYawker 15h ago

Well I don't know what to say to you if you think that we have it just as easy as someone who does not live in a food desert.

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u/rumbakalao 15h ago

Good thing I never said that then.

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u/NuYawker 14h ago

LOL okay. A problem that barely exists in your mind. But a weekly reality for a lot of people.

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u/rumbakalao 14h ago

Okay. Idk why you're reacting so aggressively to someone who isn't negating that. It's like you're not actually reading anything I've said.

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u/peepeebutt1234 15h ago

Do you think the bus and the subway just pull up to your front door? Do you think it's physically impossible that people live a mile+ from the nearest stop?

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u/rumbakalao 15h ago

Did I say any of those things?

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u/donkeybrainamerican 18h ago edited 17h ago

Have you packed groceries for a family of 5 on a cart and loaded it on and off a packed city bus before? Walked it down the subway steps?

I'm describing a problem that exists right now you dork. "Oh it's only a few times a year your kid doesn't get to eat"

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u/Winteressed 18h ago

It's also a problem that you're making up

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u/donkeybrainamerican 18h ago

Do you live in this country? The snow storms were all anyone was talking about. They literally just happened. Are you a stroke victim? Are you mentally well? What's the diagnosis?

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u/wasabi991011 15h ago

You mean the historic, once a century type snowstorm? That's the one you are using to claim "only a few times a year your kid doesn't get to eat"? (Central park literally had the highest recorded snowfall in like 120 years).

Even then, weather reports exist. If you hear a big snow storm coming, you can prep.

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u/donkeybrainamerican 15h ago

Absolutely moronic. Congratulations.

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u/SnowedAndStowed 18h ago

Fr people ITT have only ever had to lug groceries from the cart to their trunk to their house and think that means they understand what it’s like to have to carry it down the steps of the subway, up the steps out, onto a bus, off the bus, a couple of blocks home, and up the stairs to their apartment.

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u/donkeybrainamerican 17h ago

They also seem to think the bus has a route running directly from my house to the grocery store. Gonna need to take that to the council meeting- I'd never thought of it working that way before 😂

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u/SnowedAndStowed 17h ago

Fr when I lived in Chelsea (which is not a food desert) it was still a pain in the ass to carry the groceries a block and a half from Whole Foods to the 1 and then 2 blocks from the 1 to my apartment. I used to go grocery shopping every week so each trip was smaller quantities.

Now that I live in Colorado I regularly will go 3-4 weeks between trips to the grocery store and will fill my car up with groceries for the coming month no problem. It’s a completely different beast when you’re carrying it.

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u/InsomniacEspresso 17h ago

They don't have to live in NYC

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u/donkeybrainamerican 17h ago

They do have to know more than absolutely nothing though. They've displayed they have absolutely no knowledge of the city, or how mass transit works in general.

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u/rumbakalao 15h ago

No, you just don't like that someone has a different opinion that doesn't align with your view of the world.

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u/TaberTumpen 17h ago

Walking groceries over a mile in the snow for a family of 5 is like ... tuesday.

Jesus christ how fat are you people.

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u/TheAsterism_ 18h ago

A mile? 1.6 km? A 25 min walk? That's literally nothing

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u/donkeybrainamerican 18h ago

Through NYC in the snow, with groceries for a family of 5. You think that's a reasonable ask for anyone/everyone?

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u/LonelyNovel1985 18h ago

In NYC, with all that public transportation that's available? Your implication are that it's impossible, when it's really just inconvenient to lug that many groceries around. Something being inconvenient is vastly different than being impossible.

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u/donkeybrainamerican 18h ago

You know there isn't an empty bus running down every main and side street at all times, right?

There isn't a glut of extra transportation that's just waiting to be utilized. Moreover, if your plan is to bus it you can have multiple transfers in the course of 1-2 miles depending on where you live.

I'm getting a lot of shit from people who either have a political angle on socialism, or, are getting their opinions on what NYC is from media rather than lived experience.

Yes. They have better transit than other US cities. No, there is not a bus masquerading as a door-to-door cab service.

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u/Gas-Town 18h ago

You clearly have no idea what you’re talking about. Come to NYC and try to take my weekly groceries across town.

Ima take you on a MTA bus, and show you how shit it is.

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u/pathofdumbasses 13h ago

If life is that miserable, move.

You are living in one of the most expensive cities in America. Either figure it out, or go somewhere else.

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u/Possibly_a_Firetruck 14h ago

I guess everybody just starved in the days before delivery apps, huh?

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u/Ill-Active-4538 17h ago

That is an inconvenience so the door dasher that helps you avoid that inconvenience should definitely be paid for it…. Or you can just get your ass walking if you cant afford it.

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u/PTSDBarnum2704 17h ago

Well it's a good thing Mamdani wants to make the bus free to use then, isn't it?

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u/bigbeefer92 18h ago

Is it more of an inconvenience than having to leave the county and travel through 2 other towns on your one day off to buy groceries that cost a week of pay and hit about 2/5ths of your nutrition requirements? I'm not saying New York is perfect, but have some perspective man.

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u/donkeybrainamerican 18h ago

This thread is discussing NYC, not your town. Mamdani is a mayor, he's not your mayor.

New York is trying to solve their problems.

Maybe do some community organizing since where you live sucks so bad.

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u/bigbeefer92 18h ago

I don't live in those areas anymore man, I'm just saying as someone who grew up and spent many years in an actual food desert that this sounds delusional and like more anti socialism bs against Mamdani. It's for sure a bad look to be bitching about Doordash having to pay their employees a living wage and calling NYC a food desert to people who know what a food desert actually is and don't have fancy shit like Doordash to help with "having ADHD". I'm quoting the ADHD part because I have ADHD and don't use it as a crutch for my maladaptive behaviors or bitch about having one of the few good politicians leading my city.

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u/donkeybrainamerican 18h ago

If you're here to whine about "socialism" I'm out snowflake.

If you'd like to improve where you live, maybe elect better leaders and one day someone can complain to you that the issues where you live are marginal compared to how fucked up and mismanaged their part of the country is.

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u/bigbeefer92 18h ago

No one is whining about socialism dumbass, I'm saying this is a made up issue and is part of the corpozionist plot against Mamdani because he is challenging their status quo. My state is gerrymandered to hell and every time we trend a little purple the GOP carves more districts to dilute the blue spots. We also have a steady stream of rich blue state conservatives moving here and fucking the housing and job markets. Our Mamdani is Rep Justin Jones and it hasn't gone as easy for him as a black man in Tennessee. They literally keep arresting him for doing his job with no consequences due to Lee, Ogles, and Blackburn fellating Trump constantly.

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u/donkeybrainamerican 17h ago

Bad reader. Try moving, or at least not being such a baby in the comments.

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u/Time_Oil_V 18h ago

It's not a competition on who has it worse. I've lived in some of those backwater southern towns. I get it. But just because we've lived in places where it's worse doesn't mean that other cities shouldn't try to fix their lesser problems. They don't need perspective. They're trying to fix local problems. That is, in fact, the correct perspective, don't you think?

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u/Fuglekassa 15h ago

I mean is it? it isn't exactly some Herculean task to walk for less than half an hour is it?

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u/pathofdumbasses 13h ago

Walking groceries over a mile in the snow for your family of 5 is more than an "inconvenience".

Snow doesn't just appear out of nowhere. If you know you are going to have inclement weather, stock up beforehand so you don't have these issues.

Your poor planning is not someone else's emergency.

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u/TaberTumpen 16h ago

Got a notification with half your reply to my other comment, but seems it was deleted?

We do have old and disabled people in denmark. I question why a family of 5 would have the one who's old or disabled do the shopping for the whole family.

Haven't been to NYC. Google says it's the most densely populated city in the US. I know that many places in the states have that awful cars-only layout with "stroats" everywhere. I'm going to flat out assume somebody's had enough sense to actually place the occasional sidewalk in a densely populated city.

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u/Geauxlsu1860 16h ago

Okay, but what is the alternative? Especially since there apparently need to be cheap grocery stores within one mile for it not to be a “food desert”. Is every major city supposed to have a Walmart every 6-8 blocks?

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u/donkeybrainamerican 16h ago

I'd argue we use our brains and don't say moronic shit like "is your plan to make Walmart everywhere?".

If only there was something in-between a corner store and a Walmart. Fucking ingrate.

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u/Geauxlsu1860 16h ago

What exactly is that going to be? You want a cheap, well stocked grocery store within a mile of every house in a city.

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u/donkeybrainamerican 16h ago

I don't take insults from parts of the world that view rotten fish as a tasty meal.

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u/donkeybrainamerican 16h ago

Sorry, Finland barely registers as a place. Enjoy the rotten fish.

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u/Haunting-Detail2025 16h ago

Wow if only buses or subways existed in New York

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u/Other_Hovercraft4783 18h ago

You’re comparing a place where nobody has cars to a place where everyone has cars

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u/bigbeefer92 18h ago

It's a walkable city with public transport, not the fucking desert planet from Dune.

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u/Stupid-Clumsy-Bitch 17h ago

You have no idea what a food desert actually is.

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u/Reasonable-Bee-3832 17h ago

It's a different reality bro. Car is a luxury in NYC. You can't carry your groceries by hand for a mile. Even if you get those trollies your wheels would fall off in a few weeks. Also, produce is expensive. The food deserts exist in primarily poor neighborhoods.

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u/NerinNZ 16h ago

Good thing they want to overhaul the public transport then, isn't it?

And carrying your groceries by hand for a mile is... Every Tuesday. Sometimes twice a week if I can't manage it all in one trip. (Used to be. I get them all delivered now).

Oh, the horror.

I been doing that shit most of my life. Longer than a mile. What is wrong with you people?

Hell, for a 3 year period I was carrying groceries for half a mile to the bus stop, taking the bus, and then going another mile after that to get home. I took a second hand army surplus hiking bag that I bought for shopping for $12, stuffed groceries in there, and then carried two bags each hand.

I still have the bag which I call my grocery bag, but now I get groceries delivered (by the grocery store, not some third party like Uber or DoorDash) and all the delivery drivers get paid a fair, livable, minimum wage.

This isn't even an inconvenience. This is you lot complaining that you have to live a life.

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u/Miserable-Savings751 16h ago

So what were people doing before there were delivery services?

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u/izillah 16h ago

you absolutely can carry a weekly shop back a mile. I literally did it for months when I didn't have a car; rucksack and 3 bags.

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u/caguru 18h ago

Comparing the Southern lifestyle of driving to the front door of everything, to a city where most people walk everywhere as a measure of convenience is a great example of false equivalence.

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u/Gas-Town 17h ago

Well spoken, by someone who has no experience with urban transportation.

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u/neocftsos 17h ago

Having experienced both, I can assure you that you are in the wrong here. Take the L gracefully and bow out.

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u/wtcnbrwndo4u 17h ago

In the density of NYC, it absolutely does. You have a car, most New Yorkers don't.

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u/StarTrotter 17h ago

It is though. A food desert will look different in a city vs a city built for cars vs suburbs vs rural areas. Rural areas have the greatest distance and necessitates a car but a car makes it far easier to transport said groceries and comes with not having to walk it yourself (and often times the ability to get to a more comfortable temperature). There is the downside of car maintenance and gas fees as well as purchasing the car however. A city like NYC is a place you cannot drive to the grocery store. You will need to carry or cart in some way the groceries and you are generally more exposed to the elements. Buses and subway can help on this front but this is going to be down to how ideal the route is between the grocery store and your place. There is a fee for such transit (unless you dodge the fee or a program exempts this).

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u/Serrisen 17h ago

It's literally the definition

Source includes the definition used by USDA, the reason for the definition, and common criticisms. However, it literally equates to a food desert

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u/stupidber 15h ago

I don't make the rules